人的心态很重要啊...
古代两位禅师寒山和拾得有这样一段对话:
寒山问拾得:世有人谤我,欺我,辱我,笑我,轻我,贱我,我当如何处之?
拾得曰:只要忍他,避他,由他,耐他,不要理他,再过几年,你且看他.
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Kim'note
A beautiful and moving poem built around one tiny and seemingly unimportant word!I hope you'll "be" inspired by these words as much as I was!
be understanding to your enemies.
be loyal to your friends.
be strong enough to face the world each day.
be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.
be generous to those who need your help .
be frugal with what you need yourself.
be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.
be foolish enough to believe in miracles.
be willing to share your joys.
be willing to share the sorrows of others.
be a leader when you see a path others have missed.
be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.
be the first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.
be the last to criticize a colleague who fails.
be sure where you next step will fall,so that you will not tumble.
be sure of your final destination,in case you are going the wrong way.
be loving to those who love you.
be loving to those who do not love you,and they may change.
above all,be yourself.
古代两位禅师寒山和拾得有这样一段对话:
寒山问拾得:世有人谤我,欺我,辱我,笑我,轻我,贱我,我当如何处之?
拾得曰:只要忍他,避他,由他,耐他,不要理他,再过几年,你且看他.
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Kim'note
A beautiful and moving poem built around one tiny and seemingly unimportant word!I hope you'll "be" inspired by these words as much as I was!
be understanding to your enemies.
be loyal to your friends.
be strong enough to face the world each day.
be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.
be generous to those who need your help .
be frugal with what you need yourself.
be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.
be foolish enough to believe in miracles.
be willing to share your joys.
be willing to share the sorrows of others.
be a leader when you see a path others have missed.
be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.
be the first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.
be the last to criticize a colleague who fails.
be sure where you next step will fall,so that you will not tumble.
be sure of your final destination,in case you are going the wrong way.
be loving to those who love you.
be loving to those who do not love you,and they may change.
above all,be yourself.