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英语阅读:麻麻曾给你的最好忠告是什么?成年后让你受益

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What is the best advice your mother ever gave you?
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When I was a young boy in elementary school, I had an extremist religious teacher who was literally teaching us to hate other religions, so I learned to hate other religions from him.
One day my mother was driving us to our grandparents’ house, and I saw this in a car next to ours in a light stop:

I started cursing the car owner, and I was saying that he should be kicked out of the country and we should only allow people of our religion in.
Mind you my mother is a very religious person. She asked me the following questions:
Did he harm you in any way?
Do you want people of other religions to hate you, too?
Do you know how this person helped build our country?
Didn't God get him here and willed this guy to find bread here?
Do you know how it feels to be away from your family to provide for them?
I had no answer, and after a while that teacher was fired.
My country was infested with a religious political party that was trying to take over the country. We found out later that they were an international terrorist group. Now it is cleaned up of such mentality (mind you UAE is a young country and in process of building).
Ever since, I have nothing but respect for anyone and would think where they come from and what their backgrounds are.
My mother’s advice was to love everyone and be nice to people. We don't own this earth, and everyone is fated to be wherever they are and do whatever they do. Learn to coexist with them, not to push them away.


IP属地:山东1楼2019-07-18 12:59回复
    请不要把APP的名字带出来.


    IP属地:辽宁2楼2019-07-18 14:43
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      Rick Cormier:
      "Does he want to stay for supper?"
      My mother was color blind. She could see and differentiate colors just fine. What she couldn't see were the imaginary walls our society places between people.
      When I was a kid and I brought home Chinese friends and black friends and Hispanic friends from the neighborhood, her only reaction was,
      "Does he want to stay for supper?"
      I had two friends who happened to be gay. Same question.
      My mom never sat me down and instructed that I treat everyone alike and not judge people based on our differences. It was simply who she was. She was simply blind to those differences. I guess I learned it because she lived it.
      If she were alive today and knew how many Muslim and Native American friends I have... If she knew how many Hindu friends of each caste that I consider part of my "adult family of choice," she would probably ask,
      "Why not have them ALL over for supper?!"


      IP属地:山东3楼2019-07-18 15:55
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        I found that a part of Chinese people like White people and dislike black people.


        IP属地:江苏来自Android客户端4楼2019-07-19 07:23
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