今天看网易公开课,发现最近排名第一的视频竟然是来自TED 演讲:《为什么我停止观看A片》。看完感触很深,也在网上搜了相关信息,发现网上已经有不少解读介绍。影响力还是蛮大的,戒色吧也有兄弟贴上了,我在此也上传一下中英文的字幕。
网易公开课这个演讲的视频链接:
http://open.163.com/movie/2016/6/J/L/MBOR2N658_MBP58E3JL.html英文字幕链接:
http://www.singjupost.com/stopped-watching-porn-ran-gavrieli-transcript/I stopped watching porn for tworeasons basically. The first one was that porn brought so much anger andviolence into my private fantasies. And these were anger and violence that werenot there originally to begin with. And I did not want it for me anymore. Thiswas not me and, I decided to just put an end to it. Easier said than done — Igot it later on.
The second reason was that I came to realize I think that onlyby watching porn I take part in creating a demand for filmed prostitutionbecause that’s what porn really is: filmed prostitution.
Pornē standsfor prostitute; graphia stands for documentation. Andprostitution was nobody’s childhood dream, it is always a result of trouble anddistress.
Now, I became aware of that gradually, when I was volunteeringwith men and women in prostitution, some of them victims of human traffic,serving aid in brothels, under the bridge and street corners. But you don’treally need to do all that in order to understand how this mechanism of pornand prostitution works.
Because porn is a genre – it’s not about erotica or healthysexual communication. It is all about male domination of women, subordinance ofwomen. Not only the sexual practice, but as a way of being, as a genderialhierarchy in this world.
If we would ask porn – if we were to ask porn, how does itdefine something as sexual? What qualifies, what defines something as sexual?Porn would laugh in our face. What defines sexual? Whatever men find arousing –men find it arousing to choke a woman – to have a brutal sex without one touch,hug, kiss, tender caress?
我的体会:演讲者并不是从看色情对人的身体伤害来解读为什么戒除色情的,而是从自己的精神角度和别人(女性)角度来解读的。首先色情片大多说都是男人支配女人的画面,甚至有更暴力恶心有违伦理的画面。这些东西一旦开始观看,就会潜移默化的在大脑中形成,烙印在大脑潜意识中,会潜移默化的改变人的认知和行为。让人行为意识偏离正常的伦理道德,